A Fu**ed up individual!

OK, here we go.... heres a story for you.....

You become friends with someone, we'll call this person A. A is supposedly happily married to X. You seem to have the same interests, sense of humour etc. You spend a lot of time chatting with A via PM's on a certain web site. This goes on for quite awhile, the friendship grows.

Arrangements are made for a visit, for you to spend a week or so there. Should be fun, I hear you say.... well it was..... for awhile. Let me explain..... A introduces you to some friends, one in particular we shall call B. Now B was an absolutely charming person. Offered to meet for lunch on quite a few days whilst youre exploring. Fantastic I hear you say, and I couldnt agree more, a friendship in the making.
After a couple of nights out enjoying the nightlife, A decides that B isnt allowed to spend any more time with you, and decides to throw a tantrum, one which had been thrown on other occasions with other people in the same situation as you, and you end up staying at B's apartment.
SO!!!!! unbeknown to A, B and yourself still meet for lunch, text each other regularly, and go for walks (One special walk in particular. ;-) Late for dinner may set bells ringing?)
Then one night near to the end of the trip whilst yourself and A are waiting to catch the bus home, B appears, again A throws a tantrum, accusing you of all sorts. Anyway, you still end up spending quite a bit of time with B, again A isnt aware, but would you care anyway if this pathetic individual knew?
A remains in a foul mood, and you are more than happy to pack for the return home, but not before lunch, exchange of email addresses and a long hug from B.
Now youre back home, and for 5 months emails are exchanged at a rate of approx 100 per day. What does that tell you? hmmmm..... same here........ A knows youre in touch with B, and its niggling....... TUFF!!!
A then arranges a visit to your country. But in the meanwhile your friendship with A isnt as good as it was. After A returns home, because of certain antics, your friendship cools even more..... not that your bothered, youre only keeping it civil because you know B will get the brunt of the anger/childish tantrums.
Still B is emailing at a rate of approx 100 per day, until one day, a further 1 1/2 months later, B decides to call it off, for no valid reason at all, other than from what I can see, A has been giving B grief because of the friendship with you.

Now the way I see it:

A you need to get a life and stop trying to control other peoples lives constantly. Sort your own shit out and stop trying to wreck other peoples lives. If you havent guessed it already, two of the previous posts describe your personality exactly, and thats not just my opinion, it just needs more people to realise this..... namely B. One day he will, but by then it will be way too late for him, you will have already fucked him over.

B you need to toughen up, and start living your own life, and stop letting A rule over you, youre never gonna find any sort of happiness until you ditch the................. no Ill not lower myself, until you ditch A, unless its A that youre after. Hmmmmmmm..... I cant think of one reason why.
Lose the insecurity, youre a great person, you could have all the happiness you wanted, if you get rid of the excess baggage, that really isnt your baggage anyway, let someone else have the headache. Dictatorship isnt friendship. I know this may cause a few problems for you and I apologise now, but if thats what it takes for you to realise, then thats how it has to be. I cant stand back and just let someone totally shit on another person, just for their own personal gain.

X.......... Im so sorry! Words cannot express how sad I feel for you.